The very fact that you have lawsuits among you means you have been completely defeated already. Why not rather be wronged? Why not rather be cheated? 

” The body, however, is not meant for sexual immorality but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. 14By his power God raised the Lord from the dead, and he will raise us also. 

You are not your own; 20you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.

Lord God my Father,

Keep my heart in your Peace so I do not argue. Protect my spirit so I am not led into sin. I am yours and I want to honor you completely. Convict me in my sin and guide me into your plan.

In Jesus name I pray,

Amen